…they are not inviting you to start a debate. They are saying “what you are saying/doing is oppressing me/others,” and if you can’t just listen and respect that and acknowledge that they’re the best person in the world to gauge how oppressed they feel by your actions/statements… well, then you’re just an asshole.
If I say you are hurting me, you’re hurting me… and trying to tell me that those feelings aren’t valid is fucked up. If you want to be a better person it’s as easy as shutting the hell up and listening to what people have to say.
who obviously still don’t get it.
Note to self: Say heterofascist and cissupremacist more often. They’ll go nicely with a dollop of transmigoynist at...
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